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"Sister" Julia Apologizes for Attacks Against My Family in 2009

I can't believe it! - 4 years later and I came across an apology from one of the women, Julia Moreno from Children Need Both Parents who viciously attacked my mother in a malicious article in 2009 when we were first found by the FBI after being on the run for 14 years from my abusive father. Apparently this apology was published a few years ago.

Apologies for unintentional harm
Posted by JoshuaRoseFoundation on October 10, 2011
"I want to first and foremost thank each of you for being a part of my support structure as I continue to deal with my situation with my children.

Secondly, I feel I need to make a formal and public apology to anyone that may have been directly or indirectly affected by actions that happened in 2009 when I was working with someone who I no longer have associations or ties to.  (Charity Ohse Kreasko)

Several of my new contacts and supporters of Joshua Rose Foundation both personally and professionally have come under attack recently because of the usage of the term PA/PAS. I have only recently come to learn and fully understand why that word creates such a firestorm for several people. It was the first term I encountered to describe what I went through as a child, and have been dealing with in my adulthood, all at the hands of my mother, who I have recently discovered is more than likely either NPD or Sociopath. I will no longer be using that term and will find alternative means to describe what I went through as a child and what my children and I are now experiencing under the controlling and abusive grasp of my biological mother.
I was wrong to have participated in the opinion piece written about Holly Collins and her children. I have written emails in the beginning of this year apologizing for those actions. Unfortunately, for some reason, the erroneous article written about me and the other person has resurfaced and has caused some to question several factors about me that I would like to indeed clear up.” Julia Moreno

I remember Julia Moreno contacting me a few years ago begging me to delete the article I wrote about her in rebuttal of the attack she made on my family. I said that I had no desire to fight and would simply remove it when she withdrew the terribly flawed opinion piece about our family.  For some reason she claimed she was unable to comply and things ended at that.
I’m not sure what this apology is all about. It is going to take some time to forgive and forget. These women caused us a great deal of pain and suffering when we were most vulnerable. They published lies that will forever be out there in cyberspace and now one of them is sorry. At least it is a start and my mom is right that truth prevails in the end!   ~ Jennifer

Glenn Sacks & Friends Trying to Capitalize off of Abuse Victims

Ever since our story made the headlines there have been a few individuals who have tried to exploit and capitalize off of my family's pain and media exposure: Glenn Sacks, The Children Underground Watch, Children Need Both Parents, "Sister" Julia Moreno & "Sister" Charity Kreasko.

I simply cannot understand all the hostility and ugliness that's been thrown at us. I don't know any of these people none of them have even met me or my family before! What my family and I experienced was horrific and the whole point in going public was to show "This is what happened to us, please don't let this happen to you or allow it to go on anymore". I don't want to see children abused by their parents or a court system - I believe that children deserve better then that!

For this, I'm faced with Glenn Sacks, who publishes false and erroneous information about me, my family and events in our past which appears to incite radicals like Sister Julia Moreno & Sister Charity Kreasko, who wrote a completely bogus article about my family based upon Mr. Sacks' false and erroneous information, which only incites more anger from sources like The Children’s Underground Watch, which is nothing but a bitter and hate-filled blog site of a man who lost custody because he was caught abusing his daughter..

Children and families who've survived any form of abuse have seen enough ugliness in their lives; why would ANYONE want to make that experience any uglier? Ours is a cautionary tale - it was never meant to make matters worse - and while I know that everyone's entitled to an opinion, doesn't ANYONE believe in "If you have nothing nice to say, don't say it" anymore? I don't know if any of these individuals decided to take up a campaign of hatred against me and my family for "fortune or fame", but it's just not cool to capitalize off of abuse victims.

Sister Julia Moreno & Sister Charity Kreasko Respond

"Backstabbers Beware!"

“We've had all that we are going to take of Backstabbing within the movement. We've thought about this long and hard and prayed even harder upon this most troubling of subjects. We believe that the movement should be a safe place for ALL parents that have been legally abused and thrown out of their children's lives for money to come. Currently the movement has not been what it should be and what it could be. Instead it has been more like navigating shark infested waters. This is not acceptable. So, what can we do about it? Can we ban a backstabber from participating in the movement or having an organization? No, for no one single person controls this movement. As far as Sister Charity, Sister Julia and our respective organizations: We are a team and we work together… The point is this we can only control our own actions not the actions of others. Yes, we have been attacked by people inside and outside of the movement. Yes, sometimes it hurts us. Yes, sometimes it even makes us cry, but we are NOT going anywhere. We're here to stay…. WE WILL NOT give into threats, rumors, or anything else that backstabbers throw at us…”

This is a very interesting tactic from Julia Moreno and Charity Ohse Kreasko. Please check the records, we didn’t even know who these women were or the “Children Need Both Parents” website until AFTER they published a slanderous article about our family.

This is a typical response of an abuser trying to twist the facts and claim to be the victim… AGAIN!

Who is Sister Charity Ohse?

This is the Real Charity Ohse Kreasco (33) &
her husband Robert Kreasco (63)

Charity Ohse Kreasko belongs to a cult like religious organization in the hills of West Virginia. She refers to herself as “Sister Charity” a self proclaimed “Prayer Warrior.” According to her own biography Charity is an “ordained minister of Christ, prayer partner, spiritual counselor, internationally published poet, and the founder of the Guardians of the Future… " It is almost cute and child like that Charity Ohse Kreasko boasts that she is an “internationally published poet.” Her poems can be found on a self publishing internet site (poetry.com.) Since my blog, Charity has review and repaired some of the inaccuracies she published. "I have several Poems that have been published in anthologies that deal with the pain caused by alienation and other forms of emotional abuse.." When will these people realize that it is not "Parental Alienation" when a parent looses custody of their child due to their abuse and neglect of that child? In all fairness, here is one of Charity Ohse Kreasko’s poems:

Honesty's Price by Charity Kreasko
Can you feel my pain?
Do you taste my tears?
Have you experienced hate?
Know you of fear?
All questions are answered with more from within,
Screaming, Twisting, Writhing,
The truth breaks free from your heart.
Turning your tongue into a sharp blade,
Escaping your lips and slitting the throats of your loved ones,
Setting you free with their blood.

Does anyone else find this a little bit spooky? Perhaps this is one of the reasons this woman lost custody of her own child. Even though Charity has attacked my mother, my mom actually feels bad for her. She says that this is obviously a disturbed woman in severe pain. See… that is the difference between me and my mom. She still looks for the good in everyone. I am still looking for justice!

Charity Kreasko claims that she has been a victim of Parental Alienation for 29 years. First she was separated from her father when she was a child. Then she lost custody of her own child (Betsy) 6 years ago. Instead of admitting to her parental shortcomings, correcting her mistakes and becoming a better parent, Charity Kreasko takes the same approach that many abusers take by making excuses and claiming to be a victim of "Parental Alienation Syndrome." This is nothing more than an abusers attempt to excuse away their inappropriate, even abusive acts to a child.

Charity Ohse recently married 63 year old Robert Kreasko. Mr. Kreasko is prohibited (from the court) to have any contact at all with Charity’s daughter. (I wonder why.) Charity and Robert now have a young child together (Walter.) Charity is finally allowed to visit with Betsy 2 times a month for a few hours each time. Instead of cherishing this time, Charity has forced young Betsy to participate in an Anti-Parental Alienation video which she published on the internet to try to drum up sympathy. (The video has recently been removed from You Tube.) What parent would subject a young child to such emotional distress? If the judge presiding over Betsy’s care found this out perhaps Charity’s new visitation schedule would be revoked.

In Charity’s blog posting from March 26 2009, she lists 13 different quotes from the bible of how people should give to the poor, how the poor are deserving of constant charity and how we should endlessly give to drug addicts and troubled souls. Sister Charity proclaims “He (Jesus) doesn't say that it is acceptable to place restrictions or conditions on our help and He threatens to punish those that are selfish and cruel to the poor….Would you treat Jesus this way? I seriously doubt that you would ask him to take a drug test in exchange for food.”
Seriously Charity… Take responsibility for your own actions. If you have a drug problem, get professional help. Get cleaned up. Take parenting classes. Get a job. Is your 63 year old husband capable of taking care of your preschool son? Try to make amends for your mistakes instead of blaming the world around you! People need to be responsible for their own actions. How many excuses can a drug abuser make before society says enough?

The last quote in Charity’s article demonstrates her feelings toward my mother. “They were arrogant and spoiled; they had everything they needed and still refused to help the poor and needy. They thought they were better than everyone else, and they did things I hate. And so I destroyed them! Charity set our to destroy this innocent woman, Holly Collins because my mother would not defend child abusers and the false claim of Parental Alienation Syndrome. Along with her friend Julia Hartman Moreno, she published a false, hurtful, hateful, slanderous article about a beaten down and battered woman. What about her own pact that Charity has on her web blog? “I Pledge to stand up against injustice in it's many forms. I will not participate in Character Assassination. I will speak out against Judges and Other Government Agencies that Accept False Allegations of Abuse and other lies without question. I will not support legislation or elected officials that condone these practices.” Charity Ohse Kreasko

Charity Kreasko you made a terrible mistake here which even violates your own religious beliefs. My mother was a battered woman. I was an abused child! How in the world can you pass judgment when you do not have any idea who we are?

Sincerely,
Jennifer

Contact information:
Charity Kreasko
Aka Charity Ohse
GOTF
103 Hemlock DrFairmont, West Virginia 26554
PO Box 2319City, State, Zip: Parkersburg, WV 26102-2319
304-275-7023 / 304-275-7023

Who is Sister Julia Moreno?

This is the real Sister Julia!

This is also the cartoon image that Julia (Hartman) Moreno uses to portray herself on the site “Children Need Both Parents” a site for abusive parents to come together, complain about the system and claim the debunked notion of “Parental Alienation Syndrome.” Isn't this false advertising? Julia Moreno is an accused 37 year old child abuser from Barstow California. Julia and her husband Scoot Hartman lost custody of their two children, 5 year old Joshua and 6 year old Julianna Rose in August 2003 due to abuse. Since then Julia and Scott divorced. Julia remarried Roy Moreno, left her children in Northern California and relocated to Southern California so she could be the “new Mama’ to Roy’s three girls who they took away from Roy’s ex-wife. Doesn't this sound like complete hypocrisy?

I also wondered if maybe this woman was mentally compromised but she is quite cunning and has started up her own organization “The Joshua Rose Foundation” to reach out to non custodial parents. In a way I felt bad for her because it is obvious that this woman is in a lot of pain. Upon further research I discovered that she is the member of a cult like religion and refers to herself as “Sister Julia.” She is a self proclaimed “Prayer Warrior” and excuses her abusive acts by contending that everything she does is in the name of GOD. Julia Hartman Moreno has misrepresented the facts of why she lost custody of her two children. Despite admitting to the abuse and addressing her parenting shortcomings, like a typical abuser she is claiming that she is a victim of “Parental Alienation Syndrome.”

Julia Moreno has now dragged her new 10 year old step daughter Melika Moreno into the public forum:

“Hello, I am one of the junior members of the Joshua Rose Foundation and the Guardians of the Future Ministry. I wanted to share something about my “step” mom, Julia. Our situation is very special, well, at least to us it is. I want everyone to know that not all “STEP” mom’s are evil or trying to take the place of the REAL parents. Sometimes, like in our house, the “real” mom has stuff going on with them, that they cannot be there so God sends special people like my mama, Julia to help out in families that need them. I know who my Mother is and I do love her and care for her. She has some things going on in her life to where she couldn’t be the MOM that my sisters and I needed her to be, and she couldn’t be the wife that my dad needed. So GOD brought my mama, as you all know her, Sister Julia into our lives. She is the one who is here for me every day, helps me with homework, takes me to the doctor when I need to go, etc. It is my choice and that of my other middle older sister Kilikina to call her mom. We made this choice on our own. We were not forced to call her mom or mama, but it comes from our hearts. We know where our mother is, who she is and that she needs this time with God to heal her. To those who keep their kids from either parent, that is mean and cruel, but if you have someone who needs time with GOD, don’t think your kids have forgotten you. Do your best to work with everyone, so that we can all be families that are not from the same households but can be separate and not broken, so that families can be OHANA, where nobody gets left behind.” Melika Moreno

Do you really believe those are the words of a 10 year old little girl?
Or do you believe that this is a mentally unstable woman who wants us to believe that her new step children are also indirect victims of the court?

Julia Moreno has also forced her 10 year old daughter to answer an inappropriate questionnaire and she has manipulated her new step child into being a vulnerable, child victim accomplice in her own self destruction. Little Melika Moreno doesn’t really even know Julia’s two children from a previous marriage since Julia lost custody of her children Joshua and Julianna Rose over 6 years ago. Either Julia Moreno is lying that this is actually little Melika’s words or she is subjecting her new step daughter to inappropriate content, unnecessary emotional distress and abuse.

Julia Moreno writes this about her own personal situation in the third person as a disguise and the little girl answering the questions is Julia’s own 10 year old step daughter, Melika:
Julia: “The next situation is a blended family in which the Dad in the house has custody of his girls and the mom is the NCP (Non Custodial Parent) for her two children, ages 12 and 11.”

Julia: “What has been the most difficult part of your family situation?”
Melika: “My brother and sister not being with me.”
(These are not Melika’s siblings. They are the children of her father’s new wife.)

Julia: “What do you think of most when you think of your situation with your family members?”
Melika: “I think that when my brother and sister aren't here with me, I feel lonely, even though I have friends to play with, it's not the same because I miss my brother and sister.”
(Why would this little girl feel so lonely? She has two real sisters who live with her. Perhaps she is missing her own mother who Julia and Roy are alienating this child from.)

Julia: “What would you do, if anything to change your current family situation?”
Melika: “I would say them coming home would be the best thing.”
(How would a 10 year old know what the best thing was? She doesn't even know these two other kids.)

Julia: “What would you like to say to those who are keeping you from your siblings?”
Melika: “Let us have them at home. You are mean and ugly inside.”
(Why would Julia fill her innocent step daughter with such hatred?)

Julia: “How do you think the adults in your life are handling this situation with your family members?”
Melika: “I think they are handling having to deal with the other people really well but they both are upset and angry and hurt that the courts won't do the right thing.”
(Why are these children being exposed to such adult subject matters?)

Julia: “How does the situation affect you and your family members?”
Melika: “We aren't a full family with them gone.”
(They have never lived together. The little girl doesn't know who she is supposedly missing.)

Julia: “If you could say anything to the courts about how you feel about your situation, what would you tell them?”
Melika: “I'd say I want my brother and sister back now!!!”
(Doesn't this equate to brainwashing.)

Julia: “How do you try to help your family in this situation?”
Melika: “By praying for them all and doing what I can to stay in touch with my brother and sister while we are apart.”
(Why are these adults putting such a heavy burden on a 10 year old little girl?)

Julia: “Do you ever worry about the courts or CPS coming to take you and other family members away from home?”
Melika: “Yes, because I love my family and I see that they do it to other families too.”
(It is up to the adults who are responsible for this child to reassure her that she is safe and not to implant such terror in her mind.)

Julia: “What advice would you give to other young children/teenagers who might be going thru this?”
Melika: “Keep praying, keeping hope and courage.”
(Again, why is Julia Moreno exposing a little girl to such intense emotional distress?)

OH Julia, what in the world are you doing to all these children you come in contact with. This is not normal or acceptable behavior! You have some nerve attacking my mother for protecting her children from abuse when you don’t even know our situation and your own life is so messed up. I realize that you are in pain, but you are so very wrong to go out of your way to attack innocent people.

You need to get psychological help or perhaps the court should intervene and protect your step children from you as well.

Why is Roy Moreno allowing his new wife, Julia Hartman Moreno to emotionally abuse his own children?

Contact Information:
Julia Moreno age 37
aka Julie L. Greer
aka Julie L Hartman
The Joshua Rose Foundation
909 Armory Rd; PMB # 179
Barstow, CA 92311
joshuarose4family@gmail.com
call us at 760-252-5750 or 760-590-3336

Child Abusers Unite Against Protective Parents

I joined the site "Children Need Both Parents" to see if it is a supportive site for innocent parents who have been unjustly alienated from their children or a breeding ground for child abuse excuses!

I was made aware of this site when two active and vocal participants Charity Ohse Kreasko and Julia Moreno, (aka Sister Charity & Sister Julia) decided to launch a personal attack against my mother Holly Collins. They claim that my mother is a "parental alienator" and that my brother and I are the victims of Parental Alienation Syndrome.

We don’t even know these two women and all they know about us is what they have read on the internet. What is their motive to try to disprove that our mother was abused and that she attempted to protect her children also from abuse? I am now 24 years old and my brother is 26. We are clearly old enough to vocalize what happened to us. Who are these two strangers to disbelieve us?

The court found that our mother Holly Collins was battered by our father Mark Collins. The court found that our father was “physically harsh” with us children. The Court found that our father would strangle us, shake us by the neck and that he threatened to “kill” us. The visitation supervisors witnessed the bruises on our little bodies when we were brought to the facility by our father.

But Charity Ohse Kreasko and Julia Moreno claim to know better. I decided to try to find out who these women are:

Charity Dawn Ohse (33) & Robert Kreasko (63) are court found "child abusers" from Elizabeth West Virginia. Charity lost custody of her own daughter, Betsy in court due to the abuse. Although she is granted limited visitation, her husband Robbert Kreasko is denied all contact with Betsy for her own protection. They currently have custody of their 2 year old son Walter.

Julia Moreno (37) & Scott Hartman (37) from Barstow California in the Southern California Desert also lost custody of their two children Joshua & Julianna because they were also found to be “abusive ” parents. They are now divorced but they are both still denied custody.

As a typical rebuttal by abusers to cover up child abuse, both Charity & Robbert Kreasko and Julia & Scott Moreno are now professing “Parental Alienation Syndrome.” They want to promote PAS at any cost to try to convince the world their parental rights are being infringed upon. What about their poor abused children? What about their rights?

Does keeping a child safe from an abusive parent constitute “Parental Alienation Syndrome?”

How can we find a way to work together to help children who are alienated from genuinely good parents and protect them from abusers who are falsely trying to claim the same?

I support the concept of this site; Children Need Both (FIT) Parents but most important Children Need to be Protected Against Abuse!

Don’t you agree?